This week has been a whirlwind of memories, reflecting on events of the past years and how they have influenced my journey in life. Choices made, free choices some may say, have all been molded by others who have raised, taught and coached me along the way.
We all portray an image, pictures others see based on actions or words, sometimes even the words of others. These images reveal little of who we are, and often are quite a distortion of the truth.
True, some traits can be revealed in a short period of time, but to really know someone, time is needed, and ears are needed. A long journey of listening can give a glimpse of a person’s true being, though a lifetime would still not be enough to know someone thoroughly.
So why is it we create an picture, and opinion, a judgement of another without walking a listening mile with him? We quickly draw conclusions, give wise advice that often does not apply. And then we wonder why there’s no change, progress or development in the relationship. We look for the fast fix, the quick return on our invested energy and time.
There are no quick returns or conclusions on this journey. Only the privilege and pleasure of discovering another life. There's no discovery in judging the surface, but by looking much deeper to find the beauty of this intricate tapestry of life.
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